Have you ever think about: what do you all are going to do, in the moment when you are an adult human?
Honestly until now, that is a little complicated NO maybe too much complicated for us to go out it from our head, right ?
I asked some of my friends about this, and they answer it with well although we have to walk around the world before we arrive in the main topic 😂😆
So, i took some of their answers :
K ( a dad, he is a good man although too much talk😅 )
"Before going to 30th, must to be going married, if not just shoot them👀" (i told you before he is too much😑😅).
But, i think the meaning is so deepness. I mean, just imagine if you walk in the road way with your love while holding hand each other, that prettier than walk alone without nothing can holding.
Y (2 months again going to be mom, she is yah a negative thinker, 80%)
"I am not sure but i have an afraidness From September 2023, i am afraid of my vertigo, that is the deeper trauma that i got until now and because i am married , i just want to maintain relationship with husband and think about child expenses"
I think it is too complicated to some of woman, i mean when single the head full of the word of "married". After married, "when i can have a child? ". After have a child, sometimes thinking want to be a carrier women, but have to manage child and husband, time is nothing😔. So, it is complicated too, huft
F (Single, a carrier girl, she is a simple girl and introvert,100%)
"I am not sure but i want to enjoy my life just alone. i think i have to make my self happy first".
What she feels, i feel too, want to make ourselves happy first, it is more than important than anything. I mean, maybe you are gonna think you have to married soon but you are not ready yet, just ignored it, marry is not a champion, we have to win it as soon as possible. make your heart ready first 🤍
M (A dad, always have the long answer, an active person, extrovert 100%)
"going to be 30, i don not mean that we don not have to hold to someone else, but more that to, after we are busy a long day , busy with all of the activities and responsibilities as we are a human. the loneliest will be appeared that make us want to miss someone to be our place to go home, a friend that we can share our story in much thing. Especially if they are a someone that we love.
I am so dumb about lover's experiences but recently in the age turn to be an adult and begin to open minded about to know other. One thing that i realized that every human as strong as who ever sure will be feeling lonely in their life and need to be accepted and listened by other. when, i was young lover means can be a cute relationship with lover and can be known to other we have a lover. But turn to 30, i realized that have a best talk partner and same frequentation it is better relations, especially can be the best listener's partner is one of the happiest thing.
one of the afraid thing when turn to 30 is the feeling of lonely and missing for be a partner of someone as a sharing place or nothing someone for that"
No comment, his answer too long 😅
So, how about you reader, what do you feel. are your feeling same with one of my friend above ?
Note: my English grammar is not good, forgive me😊
